Well, as an official Worry Wort, my doctor approved me for an early ultra sound (early to him, but normal for other doctors). Garrett was working today, so he was able to come down and watch. I was trying to convince myself all morning that it was a boy. I know the joy of boys and didn't want to get excited about entering the world of the "bi-gender family" (Joseph, personal phone conversation, today). But when the tech asked if we wanted to know the gender, Garrett quickly said yes, while I was trying to say yes without sounding too eager.
As always is the case in our world today, there's no 100% certainty, but the tech was pretty sure that the only thing sticking out was the umbilical cord. If she is wrong, we'll be thrilled to have a third boy. One great thing about having a girl is that we have been in agreement on a girl's name since almost the beginning of our first pregnancy: Jana Lee (We may perhaps change the N to a double NN to make it "so much more alluring"). The middle name would follow the line of Matt Lee, Cynthia Lee, to Jana Lee, and Jana is just cute.
As to the lace, dresses, and the color pink, well......I can't really see this family delving too heavily into the girly hue, but I am anxious to spend some time in the previously off-limits section of the baby clothes department and buy some of those darling little girl clothes. And I guess it's good that Jonathan recently discovered that Mommy is a girl and that's different from Daddy who's a boy. He enjoys reminding me that Daddy, Jon, and Gabe are cool; Mommy is cute. So maybe soon, our little Jana will join my "cute" club and we can figure out something girly that I can do while the "cool" club is out hammering in the garage. Fingernail painting, all-day shopping trips, wearing purple masks, and doing creative things to our hair are out; but who knows? Maybe we can buy a set of pink tools and try to pass Jonathan's initiation ceremony to get into his club. On the other side of this all, maybe I'll finally have someone to watch Anne of Green Gables with - Maybe this sweet little girl will even convince Daddy that his manhood will not be challenged by sitting thru the funny parts!